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10/6/2025

What Family Constellations is Not

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🌿 What Family & Systemic Constellations Is Not
  1. Not Role-Play or Acting
    • Representatives do not pretend to be anyone else or act out stories.
    • They tune in to sensations, emotions, or movements that emerge from the systemic field — a phenomenological awareness rather than imagination or performance.
  2. Not Talk Therapy
    • There’s minimal analysis or storytelling.
    • The work relies on embodied awareness, spatial relationships, and direct experience rather than dialogue or interpretation.
  3. Not Psychodrama
    • Although both use space and representation, Constellations are not re-enactments of past events.
    • The focus is on observing and allowing what emerges, not dramatising or rehearsing interactions.
  4. Not Family Therapy (in the traditional sense)
    • It doesn’t require family members to be present.
    • The approach looks at systemic dynamics rather than communication patterns or behavioural interventions.
  5. Not Channeling or Mediumship
    • While representatives may sense information beyond conscious knowing, this is not spiritual channeling or trance work.
    • It’s grounded in phenomenology — attending to what can be observed and verified within the group experience.
  6. Not About Finding Blame or Fault
    • The work seeks to bring understanding, balance, and compassion to all members of the system.
    • Every person has a rightful place; the aim is inclusion and restoration, not judgement.
  7. Not a Substitute for Therapy or Crisis Support
    • Constellations can complement counselling, but they are not a replacement for sustained therapeutic support, mental health treatment, or medical care.
  8. Not Controlled or Scripted
    • The facilitator doesn’t impose outcomes or “fix” issues.
    • The process unfolds organically through observation and respectful guidance.
  9. Not About Quick Fixes
    • Even though insights can be profound, integration takes time.
    • The work invites deeper shifts in awareness rather than instant solutions.

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